Relationships are exhausting & exhilarating.

Join the ride as we navigate opening ours.
Growing, loving, failing and doing it all over again.

Listen up

Come along as we learn from our turning points and epiphanies.

We share our love stories and experiences, what helps and triggers us and how we support ourselves and each other in the deep waters of love and loss.

Who we are

We are two people in love who don’t want to define their relationship and sexuality along social norms. We have sex and emotional entanglements with others and a deep connection to each other and the cause.
We believe a lot of people are curious about a more open lifestyle but don’t know how to start or navigate the challenges.

We share what we learn on our way and want to connect with you.

We remain anonymous for now not to hide but to feel free enough to give emotions and intimacy space. You can get to know us without seeing our faces. For starters:

We are both queer, (currently) leaning towards heterosexuality. We are both born in ‘83, cis gender and lived on different continents, in different cultures and currently reside in Germany. We have both been monogamously married for over 10 years (not to each other).

A speaks four languages, loves playing music and he’ll stop and smile when he sees a cute dog pass by. He forever ponders his next tattoo.
M’s mother tongue is German (you might have guessed from the accent), she is passionately self-employed in the realm of health and glued to books. She forever ponders her next trip overseas.

Ask us anything!

Send us your anonymous question and we might pick it up in our next podcast episode or newsletter.

You opened your relationship and loved it? Hated it? Opened it even wider? Closed it again?
Are single and curious? Monogamously paired and intrigued?
We’d love to hear from you!